You are almost there, my little BDSM monkey in training! You have the equipment you need to keep someone in their place, now how do you pleasure them in an equally kinky fashion?
Keep reading to see how you can stimulate your partner in several fun ways!
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Ok, anyone who has seen Basic Instinct knows that being tied down can be uber sexy. It can also get you stabbed 51 times with an ice pick. It’s a gamble that is worth taking!
Keep reading to learn about the restraint options available to you!
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How can something as simple as not being able to see enhance your bedside manner? How many different types of blindfolds could there be?
Keep reading to see how good things come to those who can’t see them coming.
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What does a buttplug do? And what does a ball stretcher do? And what the HELL is Cock and Ball Torture and why would anybody want to do THAT?!
Keep reading to see what these two tricks of the trade are all about and how they can help get your bondage play crackin’!
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Tit Torture? It’s nowhere near as bad as it sounds (well…it doesn’t have to be anyway..)
Keep reading to learn about your savory teat and what they have to offer you in the bedroom.
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We kick off Bondage Week with a good ol’ fashioned spanking post.
Keep reading to learn more about this wonderful past time!
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This kinda steps away from my format, but I am pissed.
The sex industry has its good and its bad. The people and places that are respectful of your privacy and the people and places that exploit it.
Susie’s Delights in Tarzana, CA just released information about toys and equipment that the late David Carradine purchased.
This is disgusting. For starters, there is nothing wrong with a desire to participate in predicament bondage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be tied up, whipped, spanked, choked, whatever.
Secondly, whoever the owner of Susie’s Delights is should be a-fucking-shamed of herself for disclosing the details of any customer purchases. I mean, I’m really not surprised that the owner of an armpit-of-a-store like Susie’s Delights would have zero moral compass, but it still makes me angry to know that there are sleazes like her out there in this industry. Shame on you, you give us all a bad name.
So in honor of David Carradine (I heart you, Bill) and anyone who is interested in the topic, I am officially declaring next week here at the INQUEERY Bondage Week. I will be covering some of the basic essentials, some tips and tricks, and plenty of information on how to experiment and play safely in the world of BDSM.
Gets your pens and papers ready, kids! It’s gonna be fun!
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When people think red and yellow burger clown they think of Ronald McDonald and when people think of buttsex they think of me. And who wouldn’t when looking at pictures like this!
(the result of me finally snapping after working on some fetish article)
Check out this funny conversation between The L Magazine contributing writer Lauren Wilkinson and myself about the ins and outs (GET IT?) of anal sex!
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Many people know that Joshua Katcher and I have been madly in love for decades. Someday soon he will realize this and we will ride off into the sky to a planet all our own. Our steads shall be pink in hue. Our bodies shall be moist, and I shall feed him a stalk of broccoli as I run my fingers through his hair.
Alright so I am the worlds greatest creep, but I mean, just look at how cute he is!
If you’re wondering what inspired this sad little tale, he posted an interview with Rory Freedman, co-author of this book that sounds like a good read called Skinny Bastard, and they touch on how your diet affects your libido and sexual health health (I TOLD YOU!).
If you’d like to give it a listen, go visit my hubby’s blog.
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The data was collected by monitoring Craigslist ads of M4M activity. I’m not sure that makes this poll the most accurate in the world, but it’s definitely something!
Of all places, Houston won the bottom contest with 75% of posters looking for tops. So which city has the most tops? According to the poll: New York. Ha! What bar is THAT?! I want to go to there.
Keep reading to see a chart of the various cities studied and their relating pitchers and catchers.
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The INQUEERY is dedicated to educating gay men about all things sex. Its aim is to enrich the lives of the gay community by helping everyone explore their sexuality in a risk-aware, liberating and all-inclusive way. This gay sex toy and product review is just for you! At The INQUEERY, what happens in your bedroom is my business.
Brandon B. is a sex educator, writer, and performer living in Brooklyn, New York. He conducts workshops out of various venues including the famous Pleasure Chest in the West Village where he is the manager. After failing to locate any gay sex blogs that talked about “sexy safer-sex,” in 2009 he created TheINQUEERY.com, a sex toy and product review site specifically for gay men. In 2010, he began reading erotic pieces from his personal mini-art zine at various venues including a 12-month residency at The Bowery Poetry Club for the burlesque, queer, performance art show Auralfixia. In 2011, he was a model for the New York Sex Blogger Calendar and presented at the MOMENTUM conference in Washington DC. You may contact him at any time for booking info or other questions at mebrandonb@gmail.com.
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