Dear Brandon,
I recently told my partner of several years that I wanted to be monogamous. Until now we have had an understanding that we are allowed to play with other people, but we have been together for such a long time now and I don’t want to share him anymore. He told me that he doesn’t want to be monogamous and that we should probably break up. How can he turn his back on me after all this time? Should I be as hurt as I am that he wants to fuck other guys besides me after all these years?
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B,
I am uncut and I love to bottom, but I have tried to top a few times in the past but it hurt like hell! I read your piece about being versatile but I don’t get how I am able to top somebody if it’s going to just end up hurting me. Is there anything I can do to numb the pain? Or is there maybe something wrong with me?
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“Dear Brandon,
I have a pretty large penis, but I’ve noticed I’m a grower, not a shower. How you do feel about stretching tools? Should I just be happy that I’m big when I’m hard?”
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Dear Brandon,
I always bottom. Sometimes it’s fine, and sometimes it hurts. Not the whole time, just when they first stick themselves in. The only way I can describe it is it feels like a sharp pain like something is tearing. But then gets easier after a minute or two. Is there anything I can do to make it hurt less? I’ve heard there are numbing lubes out there but I don’t know if they work.
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