You are almost there, my little BDSM monkey in training! You have the equipment you need to keep someone in their place, now how do you pleasure them in an equally kinky fashion?
Keep reading to see how you can stimulate your partner in several fun ways!
Men have this silly pride about them that makes them believe by default that they are sex machines. As if they were born and then started fucking and the first fuck they ever had they blew the other person away. Sex, like all things, has its practitioners that are naturals at it (call me!), but for the most part it’s something that we get better at as we practice, play, and grow into our own sexual selves.
Ones of the best things you can do for yourself is recognize that there are tools that you can use besides your hands, mouth and penis to send your partner over the moon with ecstasy. These devices are typically recieved by the general public as either kinky or freakish. Nothing is really “freakish” when the aim is to make someone else feel good though, right?
Let’s have a look at some of the tools you can use to get your partner or yourself all worked up:
Perhaps you have a pet and you have seen these cute, feathered creations at the pet store. They drive cats crazy, but they also can make humans go wild. Body Ticklers serve a handful of purposes. One is the obvious — some people like being tickled. If you are ever able to be tickled when you climax, tell me it doesn’t feel like your head is about to explode. Some people though just enjoy the smooth sensation of feathers being dragged slowly across their skin. If you are looking to relax your partner while at the same time getting them worked up, try lightly dragging one of these against sensitive parts of his body.
Probably one of my favorite toys ever made! Zapper Paddles were actually designed for swatting flies, but you can swat other things with it too. The Zapper Paddle conducts electricity through the paddles wire mesh, producing a sharp Zap! upon contact with skin. They are safe to use anywhere but on the face. They do pack a mean punch though. At The Pleasure Chest in Los Angeles, it was an employees (unofficial) initiation to be swatted with this thing because of how strong it was. I think I was the only one that smiled when my turn came.
Wartenberg wheels are used in the medical industry to test for nerve reactions. Or something. I’m not a doctor, I just know that these things feel awesome on your nipples! This rotating spiked wheel can be maneuvered anywhere on your skin, but be careful! Those spikes are really sharp!
In the same family as the Wartenberg wheels are these awesome gloves that I have turned so many people on to. Vampire Gloves come with a series of small spike pins sticking out of the palms and fingers, turning the face of your hands into exciting pleasure pioneers. These spikes are also sharp and can break the skin if you aren’t careful, but the sensation that they create when run along your ass, thighs and back is just too good to pass up!
JimmyJane makes a great candle called Afterglow. It’s made of soy based wax infused with essential oils and comes in several excellent scents. But here is the kicker — the wax burns warm so that it can be poured onto the skin. The wax works as a massage lotion and moisturizes the skin, and just feels god damn good to have poured all over your body. Normal candles can burn pretty hot and burn your skin, but some people have higher thresholds when it comes to that than others. I personally am happy as a clam with my warm JimmyJane candle, thank you very much.
There are so many extra goodies out there, I couldn’t possibly cover them all. Be creative when picking something out that you might like. I think you can see from this summary that it can be anything really, just remember to keep it SSC (safe, sane and consensual).
